LGBTQIA+ Individual Therapy
Therapy works best when you don’t have to wonder whether you’ll be accepted for who you are. Yet many LGBTQIA+ clients describe past experiences where they felt only partially understood.
My commitment is simple: to create a space where your identity is respected, honored, and welcomed.
A Safe and Affirming Space
Being part of the LGBTQIA+ community can come with unique challenges:
Discrimination or bullying
The weight of internalized shame
These experiences don’t just live in your mind. They impact your body, nervous system, and sense of self.
As a trauma therapist, I recognize how these wounds show up in everyday life. Anxiety, depression, people-pleasing, and chronic self-doubt are often rooted in environments where authenticity wasn’t safe.
In our work together, you don’t have to shrink or explain away who you are. You get to bring your whole self into the room.
Healing Beyond Talk
Talking about your story matters — but words alone don’t always release the pain. That’s why I integrate trauma-informed, body-based approaches, including:
Brainspotting — helps locate and release trauma stored in the body and nervous system. Many LGBTQIA+ clients find it powerful for working through rejection, fear, or chronic stress.
Internal Family Systems (IFS) — supports you in connecting with the different “parts” of yourself, including those that had to hide, protect, or silence your truth. Read more about IFS here.
EMDR — a research-backed method for reducing the charge of painful memories so they no longer control the present.
These modalities go deeper than coping skills. They help you release what your body has been holding, so you can feel safer, calmer, and more present.
What We Might Work On
Every client’s story is unique, but some common themes include:
Untangling religious or spiritual trauma that told you your identity was “wrong”
Navigating the stress of coming out — whether to family, at work, or in community
Healing internalized shame that affects self-worth and relationships
Managing anxiety or depression connected to being unseen or misunderstood
Setting boundaries and breaking free from codependency patterns
Because I specialize in codependency and trauma, we may also explore how old patterns of caretaking or people-pleasing developed — and how to reclaim your own voice. For more, you might explore Understanding LGBTQIA Developmental Trauma and Codependency: A Journey Toward Healing which unpacks working through this specific kind of trauma.
Gender and Identity at Your Pace
If you’re trans, non-binary, gender-expansive, or still exploring language for your identity, therapy doesn’t have to push you into definitions or timelines.
Together, we can:
Hold space for grief after years of invalidation
Address the stress of ongoing misgendering
Celebrate the relief of living more authentically
You deserve a therapist who won’t pathologize your identity, but instead honors the full spectrum of who you are.
Why Affirming Therapy Matters
Research shows LGBTQIA+ individuals face higher rates of anxiety, depression, and trauma symptoms — not because of who they are, but because of the harm they’ve endured.
Affirming therapy can help interrupt the cycle of:
Shame
Silence
Self-erasure
Healing is about restoring safety in your body, reconnecting with your truth, and building a foundation of self-trust.
Moving Forward
Healing isn’t about rushing to “fix” yourself. It’s about:
Giving space to the parts of you that were never fully seen
Helping your nervous system learn what safety feels like again
Building a new relationship with yourself rooted in worth and self-compassion
If you’re looking for LGBTQIA+ affirming therapy in Texas — whether in-person in Houston or online statewide — I’d be honored to walk with you.
When you’re ready, reach out. Together, we can create a space where your story, your identity, and your healing matter.